How long previously the torment become pleasure?

When you lost your virginity? When you loose your virginity there is no aim for there to be discomfort at all - apart from possibly if the woman/girl has her hymen broken which can sometimes hurt - the perception of loosing virginity being bloody is pure myth, if both patries are relaxed and aroused enough within is no reason, ancient a medical problem, that would cause torment.
after about the fifth time but that be a good few years ago so it could even be longer i don't really remember