How to move it up a bit?

what are some ways to add some spice to the bedroom, I talk about some things and he didnt seem to be too into some. but I really want to shock him and make him be similar to wow!
what are things you guys use or do, or any advice
thankfulness for the help~ my guys shy too so i started with the outfits n would buy sex games as a quip but we would still play them...try buying flavored lubes n a vibrator but dont do it all at once, also try taking him to the store next to u n see if he likes anything or use a camera:)
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